Sarah Shahi, the actor who bared all to play the stay-at-home wife, Billie Mann, in Netflix’s relationship drama, Sex/Life, opens up about the similarities between her own life and the character she portrays.
In an essay for Glamour, Shahi shares her own wake-up call to rediscover sex, desire, and pleasure.
In the season-one finale of Sex/Life, Billie, the character portrayed by Shahi, boldly declares ‘Now fuck me’ to her ex-boyfriend Brad.
This pivotal moment not only captivated fans of the show but also served as a battle cry for women to listen to their deepest desires.
Shahi herself felt empowered and courageous, as those three words gave a voice to the boldest parts of herself that she had once denied.
Shahi’s personal journey of sexual awakening began in December of 2019, just before taking on the role of Billie Mann.
Feeling stuck and unhappy, she realized that she had been living a life that prioritized everyone else’s needs above her own.
As a mother, wife, and working actor, Shahi had been juggling her responsibilities but neglecting her own ambitions and desires.
Through her honest reflection, Shahi sheds light on the societal pressure placed on mothers to multitask and devote themselves entirely to their families.
She reveals how she had lost touch with her passions and settled for a life that didn’t reflect her true self.
However, playing Billie Mann in Sex/Life awakened Shahi to the importance of embracing her desires and reclaiming her sexuality.
Sarah Shahi’s story serves as a reminder to women everywhere to listen to their own needs, find their voices, and pursue lives that align with their authentic selves.
It’s an inspiring tale of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual awakening..
